Collaborative Negotiation: A Different Way to Divorce

Collaborative Negotiation is an innovative approach to the divorce process. In the Collaborative Practice model, the parties commit at the outset to resolve the case through negotiation rather than litigation. They each hire an attorney and both the attorneys agree not to be litigation counsel. Unlike mediation, the parties electing collaborative law are actively represented by their attorneys in each step of the negotiation process.

Collaborative Law is a conflict resolution process guided by the principle of a non-adversarial approach to problem solving. Going to court is not an option in the Collaborative approach. Eliminating the threat of litigation eliminates the animosity and mistrust that is often a part of the traditional litigation model.

The ground rules for the Collaborative process are:

  • A pledge by both the parties and attorneys not to go to Court.
  • Agreement by the parties to provide full, honest and voluntary disclosure of all information.
  • Use of neutral experts, jointly retained by the spouses.
  • Informal 4-way meetings;
  • Withdrawal of counsel if the clients elect litigation or if either party impedes the collaborative process.

Collaborative Law provides the client with control of the process and the outcome of their divorce. Both parties are allowed to speak and be heard in a safe environment. The widest ranges of settlement options are considered because the process is interest based. The parties work face to face with their attorneys in an open and honest exchange of information.

At any time, either party may terminate the collaborative process and resort to the traditional litigation approach. However, a major disincentive to litigate is built into the process by the provision that counsel will withdraw and not represent the party if that party wants to pursue litigation.

Advantages: Collaborative law is usually less expensive than litigation. The use of jointly selected experts and advisors along with the open and cooperative sharing of information greatly reduces legal fees and expenses. Since the parties have made a commitment not to litigate, the parties and the attorneys devote all of their efforts to a negotiated settlement that is acceptable to both parties. The empowering aspect of Collaborative Law is that the attorneys assist the clients to find the solutions that best suit the needs of the parties. The attorneys provide expert guidance in the law, but the clients know best what will work for them.

The Collaborative Process

After each party selects independent collaborative counsel, the process moves forward using four-way meetings. Generally, the process comprises four stages. In the first stage, all necessary information is gathered. In the second stage, the parties and their attorneys analyze the information, choices, options, and possible outcomes. If one party has all the information and records, it is that party’s responsibility to get all of the information to the other party. In the third stage, the parties and their attorneys begin negotiating a settlement of all issues. Once all of the options have been considered and the parties are ready to work on a settlement, the parties develop settlement proposals which reflect each other’s interests. In the fourth stage, a settlement is negotiated and a formal agreement is prepared which will become a Judgment of Dissolution.